Wedding Services
"When you're Lucky enough to meet your one person then life takes a turn for the best, it can't get better than that"
Personlised Alternative Marriages
by PAM
Let me design the ceremony you've been dreaming of.
Every couple has an untold Love story, and your wedding day is the perfect opportunity to share it!
So, why not opt for a beautiful, personalised wedding ceremony that celebrates all that you are and tells your story in a truly captivating way?
I believe that every couple deserves to have exactly the ceremony they desire. Whether that be traditional, symbolic, simple or colourful with all the frills, it's your wedding day, so let's tell your story your way.
Your Ceremony
I'll guide you through the process of creating your ceremony,
ensuring that it expresses your love and commitment to each other in a unique and meaningful way, and reflects your beliefs and wishes, personal stories, philosophy of life, and personalities.
Best of all, I'll do it in the most stress-free, creative, full of fun ideas and simplest way possible.
My background.
After spending more than 35 years as a specialist Social worker in disability teams, I have decided to pursue a new path, one where I can redeploy my existing skills of engaging with families, sharing accurate information and supporting families at stressful times. All of these are essential skills so that I can craft meaningful ceremonies for significant life moments..
No matter if you are a religious, interfaith, or non-religious couple, I will listen to your wishes and preferences and work with you to weave them together seamlessly. As an independent and heart-led celebrant, I value creativity, acceptance, and integrity, as I get to know you better and gain insight into your relationship, I will reflect your love into each element. Based in the Northwest of Ireland, I am able to cover all of N.Ireland and Southern Ireland, destinations in Europe as I am a member of the Motor Caravanners Club.
When a couple makes an enquiry with me...
I’ll contact you and schedule an initial Zoom call so we can get to know each other. Finding the right Celebrant is an important choice . It's all about getting to know you as individuals and as a couple, understanding what is important to you both and what you envisage your ceremony will look like.
Confirmation :If you decide that I'm the celebrant for you and trust me with your unique Love story, then we get started.
This is the fun bit , arranging face to face meet ups, so we can have a deeper connection .I will arrange and meet my couples, explain my Celebrant role, how I will be with them through their journey. Discuss Terms and Conditions, confirm date and booking.
It is at this meeting that I am able to tease out more details to ensure that I can truly personalise the ceremony content. This will include memorable elements, personal vows, readings etc.
I go away and create your bespoke script, with love , joy and a wee bit of pamela magic. I will give you a draft copy of the script so amendments and any final thoughts can be included.
The final script will be "signed off" about a month before the big day, so the couple can have one less thing to stress about leading up to their special wedding ceremony.
On the day, I will arrive at your venue early to make sure everything and everyone is ready .Linking in with venue staff, photographer and readers,. To go over last minute details to reassure and support , as all your planning and dreams and your love story to this important place and time are about to unfold.
Let the celebrations begin.
Elopements for couples who wish to get married in Ireland.
Services offered:
For your elopement ceremony I aim to make sure that the moment you exchange “I do” or “I will” that it is all about you, your preferences and reflects your personality.
We can explore how you envisage your ideal elopement which can be held anytime, anyplace, anywhere. If you want to incorporate Celtic symbolic memorable moments, from Handfasting, Bell Ringing or a Traditional Celtic Quaich Ceremony. This can be Guinness, Whiskey or any drink of your preference. Just get in contact and we can begin to discuss ways of making meaningful moments for you both.
